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Why women are easy targets for
random acts are:
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Lack of awareness of what is
around themselves
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Body language (should keep
head up, swing arms, stand straight)
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Wrong place at wrong time
Thing to look for when going
to or standing at a car:
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Don’t sit in the car (ex.
balance check book) when a predator could be watching.
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Be aware; look around at
front seat, back seat, and the passenger side of floor.
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If parked next to a big van
get in the passenger side of the car.
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Look and see if a male is
sitting in a seat closest to your car. If so, go back and get a guard or
someone to come back with you.
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Use elevators instead of
stairs.
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Do NOT get on an elevator
with someone you feel uncomfortable with.
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Don’t feel sympathetic for
someone. Use good judgment when
someone needs help. If you are alone tell them you will get help.
Tips if you get in a dangerous
situation:
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React immediately (ex. If
your driving, and he is taking you to an abandoned place, crash the car at 5
mph and jump out while he is in shock.)
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Resist going with him.
If possible, run and don’t give up.
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Always keep distance when
walking past strangers on the street or dark areas.
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Get a cell phone for an
emergency call to 911.
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If your car breaks down,
don’t stay in it. If it is
noon on a business day, you may want to put your hazards on and walk to
safety. If it’s the middle of the night walk to a lighted area if
possible. If you’re on a desolate road, walk away from the car in
warm clothes and go to some bushes or some other area away from your
vehicle. It may be cold and uncomfortable, but at least you are not sitting
as an easy target in your broken down car.
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If you are walking alone in
the dark and realize someone is following/chasing you scream “fire”.
People tend to get nosey when they hear fire; they do not pay as much
attention when using “help.”
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Crawl under a car and grab on
to something as a last hope. He will not likely come under there for you
(Practice this technique ahead of time.).
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Find some kind of obstacle
(ex. A parked car and run around it like ring around the rosie).
Physical defenses against a
violent predator:
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Eyes are very vulnerable;
poke them hard in the eyes.
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Griping around his neck
strong enough to cut off their breathing.
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Kick them in the knees.
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The elbow is the strongest
point on your body. Use it if
close enough.
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If you are ever thrown into
the trunk of a car, kick out the back taillights and stick your arm out the
hole and start waving like crazy.
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If you do NOT do these things
right the first time, you may be in greater trouble because it will anger
the individual. It is not that
you should not attempt them, but be FORCEFUL when you do.
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