Is jealous and possessive towards you, won't let you have friends, checks up on you, won't accept breaking up.

Tries to control you by being bossy, giving orders, making all the decisions; doesn't take your option seriously.

Is scary. You worry about how they will react to things you say or do.

Is violent; had a history of fighting, loses temper quickly, brads about mistreating other.

Attempts to manipulate or cause a guilt trip by saying "If you really loved me you would..."  Gets too serious about the relationship to fast.

Abuses drugs or alcohol and pressures you to take them.

Blames you for getting them angry and that you provoked it.